We often talk about the perineum of women but it seemed important to us to also talk about the male perineum. He may be responsible for several erectile dysfunction as premature ejaculation For example.

The perineum in men

You might not know it yet, but YES! Men, just like women, have a perineum. When we talk about this famous pelvic floor, we immediately think of urinary incontinence but a loose perineum can also lead to other consequences. Although women are more affected by perineum problems, men can also be affected. For example thepremature ejaculation is one of the signs of an unhealthy perineum. A little focus on the link between perineum and premature ejaculation in this article!

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perineum diagram for men and women

What is premature ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation (or premature ejaculation) is the sexual disorder most common in humans. The man is unable to control his ejaculation: it occurs very quickly during sexual intercourse (between a few seconds to 2 minutes).

According to several studies, between 20 and 30% of men are affected by premature ejaculation, including 80% who ejaculate in less than 30 seconds, 10% between 40 and 60 seconds and the remaining 10% between 1 and 2 minutes.

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The link between premature ejaculation and the perineum

The muscles at the base of the penis are actually the perineal muscles. By reflex, these muscles contract to be able to evacuate semen. This phase of expulsion is not controlled by the will of man but the phase which precedes this “ ejaculatory reflex » can be controlled to delay ejaculation.

So you will have understood, it is thanks to your perineum that you can delay the moment of ejaculation. And if you suffer from ejaculation, the perineal rehabilitation can therefore help you.

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Exercises to strengthen the male perineum

For this, we give you some exercises to strengthen your perineum and avoid premature ejaculation. If you do not know how to contract your perineum, do not hesitate to consult a healthcare professional who can inform and guide you.

  • Hold the contraction for five seconds. Release then rest for a few seconds, and then repeat ten times or until you feel too tired. The more you train, the more it allows you to increase the duration of contractions and the number of repetitions.
  • You can then contract the perineum in sets of 10, maintaining the contraction for 10 seconds
  • [With a ball] You can also perform an exercise lying on your back and with your knees bent. Squeeze a ball between your knees while inhaling and contracting your abs and perineum. As you exhale, release your abs, perineum, then knees and ball. A series of a few repetitions can be effective in strengthening your pelvic floor.
  • You can access the Emy application to do your perineum exercises for free. It offers fun exercises that are easily accessible from your smartphone. The exercises are modeled on the medical protocols for perineal rehabilitation. In the form of mini-games, you work your muscles by alternating rapid, repeated contractions, to be maintained over time... as you would do with a healthcare professional. You strengthen your perineum at your own pace and wherever you want!
32 games available in the emy app

The goal is to maintain your pelvic floor to avoid premature ejaculation, but also to reduce the possibility that you will ever face problems urinary incontinence or other erectile problems. By strengthening it and especially by keeping it muscular over time, you will regain control of your body. 

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FAQ - périnée et sexualité

What is the link between the pelvic floor and sex?

The pelvic floor muscles surround the vagina. They contribute to sensation during sex and to the contractions felt at orgasm. A pelvic floor that lacks tone, or one that is too tight, can change these sensations and your intimate comfort. Learning to contract and then relax your pelvic floor is one of the approaches used by pelvic health physiotherapists and midwives.

What can I do about low libido?

Desire changes throughout life: tiredness, stress, the postnatal period, breastfeeding, menopause, some medicines or relationship difficulties can all play a part. Talking to your partner and, if it is weighing on you, to your GP, a midwife or a sex therapist can help identify the causes and the right options.

Is pain during sex normal?

No. Pain during or after sex (dyspareunia), penetration that is impossible or very painful (vaginismus) or troublesome vaginal dryness are worth discussing with a health professional: your GP, a gynaecologist, a midwife or a pelvic health physiotherapist. The causes vary (physical, hormonal, emotional), and the right support is available.

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